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3/29/2023

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Sharlene Beaulieu
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Cecile has articulated perfectly our nature to hide uncomfortable truths about ourselves from others and in so doing we negatively affect our ability to heal and move forward in this adventure called life. Truly a remarkable and unforgettable read. Certainly motivating one to deal with their own hidden life secrets in a positive manner.

22 Comments
Cecile
3/30/2023 07:48:39 am

Thank you Sharlene for the kind words.

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Amazon Customer
5/5/2023 01:00:06 am

This is a book you will stay with you long after you have read it and is one you won’t easily forget. The author with her excellent metaphoric writing will take you right along with her as she recounts the tragedy as well as the lighter moments of her life.

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Amazon Customer
5/5/2023 01:01:10 am

Brother Broken will warm your heart with the love a sister has for her brothers, and break it just the same from the tragedy that has wreaked havoc on her family. I laughed and cried, empathized and mourned at the ebb and flows of their life story. Its beautifully written and I hope everyone enjoys it as much as I did. It will make you want to pick up the phone and call your brother or sister you havent touched base with in a while.

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Michelle Kobol (Source Goodreads)
5/5/2023 01:03:42 am

It is a well written book about a family who had to face three tragic deaths. Cecile also brings to life her three brothers John, Denis and Mitch and there struggles in their short lives. I loved the book.

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Mona Kitchener (Source Goodreads)
5/5/2023 01:07:35 am

Although the main topic of Brother Broken is a sad tale of suicide and how families are impacted, it is much more than that. I found it to be a compelling story, a big interesting description of life in a large French-Canadian family living in Northern Saskatchewan and describing how a family of seven children had to learn to live together and love together and work through all the trials that go along with such a busy life. As an only child I found the family stories un-putdownable. - goodreads review

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Colette Herman (Source Goodreads)
5/5/2023 01:08:30 am

I was glued to this story from beginning to end. Thought it was well written, I didn’t want to put it down. I got the book through kindle and also ordered a soft cover for my mom. - goodreads review

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Mary D. (Amazon Customer)
5/5/2023 01:10:01 am

Really liked this book. A true story that is worth reading.

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Pauline Beaulieu Johnson (Source Goodreads)
5/5/2023 01:11:23 am

Crest Magnifique!!! So well written!!! Cecile Beaulieu is a genius!!! And I'm not just saying that because she is my beloved sister!!! But as a book lover myself!!! It is candid, it is a page turner! I did not want to stop reading even when my eyes grew so tired I couldn't see the words anymore!! The book has helped me heal a little bit with my brothers, although the hurt and the memories I'll always be with my family!!!

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Patricia Murray
5/12/2023 08:47:50 am

This book gives a birds eye view of a seemingly ordinary family with six children at the beginning, four boys and two girls. It is a heartbreaking personal account of the struggles shared by these siblings. They grow up with a common link of what seems to be troublesome effects from background events that cannot be completely understood. There are elements of mental illness, suicidal thoughts and actions which surface sporadically in their family circle. Whether from past events or genetic commonalities, these issues intersperse among them and spring forth at various times and display in varying ways. The results trigger devastating confusion for the family members left trying to understand the repeated sad outcomes.

The author’s story captures the family members’ ongoing connected lives even though complicated by challenging differences that could work to drive them apart. She places the reader at the center of the story giving an animated view of her family, foibles and all. It includes relatable descriptions of their joys and sorrows while at times these described events become extreme. The story is skillfully written to evoke a clear picture of the settings as well as to give an accurate feel for the mood of each interaction. It refers to specific occasions that engage the reader within the scene. This book contains thoughtful dialogue to help us understand these situations whether personally familiar ones or not.

Following this most interesting read, I was left with some questions about what really caused the repetitive tragedies.
I highly recommend this book to any who would take interest in its family dynamics and complexities.
Patricia Murray

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Review by Jeyran Main, Review Tales link
8/18/2023 07:42:32 am

‘Brother Broken’ is an emotional memoir written by Cecile about her life, mental illness, suicide, relationships, life, and how it all ends up becoming a self-discovery journey for her.

Family is key in this memoir and you get to meet Cecile’s six siblings growing up. I enjoyed reading about Saskatchewan and how mental illness ran through the family. Each sibling grows with different personalities and encounters their own struggle and experiences. This enabled the reader to feel more involved and part of the story.

‘Loss fuels hope’, and that is what we take home after reading this book. The author writes with care and detail. Her honest revelation of what transpires in her life is a testimony to her strength.

I enjoyed reading this memoir very much because I found it inspirational. I recommend this book to those who enjoy honest memoirs.

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Review by Rachel, scuffed granny link
8/18/2023 07:47:08 am

Brother Broken by Cecile Beaulieu

4/5 stars

Beaulieu’s memoir is a brutally honest examination of her family’s history and, in particular, her three brothers and their untimely ends

There are not many times that I approach an author after reading a book review by another reviewer – I'm not usually that forward. But there was something about Cecile Beaulieu’s book Brother Broken that made me reach out and I am glad that I did.

I can say categorically that this is one of the most moving memoirs I have read, made so by Beaulieu’s honest and emphatic recollection of her life with her family growing up in rural Saskatchewan, and, in particular, her memories of her brothers, now departed. What a tragic life to have lived, the grief palpable on every page as Beaulieu examines the circumstances that led three of her brothers to take their own lives. And yet, this is not a book that wallows in sentiment or smacks of self-pity – and believe me, Beaulieu would have every right to wallow. It is, however, an examination of circumstances and what is known in an endeavour to make sense of what is ostensibly a senseless loss of life.

There is a lot of sadness here but also a lot of love; Beaulieu loves her brothers, despite issues that she may have had with them. Humour is threaded throughout Beaulieu’s prose and what could have been maudlin, heavy reading is surprisingly light; not because it lacks depth but because it reads more like a respect-laden memoriam than a self-serving indulgence. The picture that she paints of her early life is one which is full of mischief, the outdoors and family time – Canadian to the core. Her parents are loving and provide a stable home environment with grandparents close and family contact a staple part of life. There are the usual scuffles at school with bullies and the scrutiny of these incidents to see how they may have shaped both herself and her brothers into the people they became. Later, there is the inevitable drifting between teenage siblings as they are driven by different urges but always the familial connection which continues to draw people back to each other.

It is a sad book and I feel the weight of its subject and yet, it has an optimism, an acceptance and with the list of affirmations at the end, catharsis: that Beaulieu will set aside her past as something that shapes, yes, but does not dictate her future.

A great read.

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Review by Kimberly Ann, Founder of Kimberly Ann Ministries
8/18/2023 08:00:27 am

I feel as though I have been "filled up" and "squeezed dry;" drenched completely and then brought to the place of being parched again in a 'continuum' .... as the paragraphs and chapters progressed on.

you DO speak of 'same periods in time' at DIFFERENT times in future chapters... (giving us 'new information' to digest and enrapture) that gives even more clarity and depth into certain things--- whether it be one of your brothers, your own mindset concerning life, or a whole new gem altogether that I would not have imagined!
Over and over again... I identified with many things-- and alas (as individual life, circumstances, tragedy and uniquely 'orchestrated' pain makes up us ALL) I found myself simultaneously... trying to grasp the incredible cacophony of your story.

You are a master-story-teller, Cecile. You remember MORE details about INDIVIDUAL situations and events (whether big OR small) than MOST people have even HAD.... in their lifetime! :) Many, many intertwined and intricate details about the lives of EACH family member were astounding! You were honest, raw and real. You didn't hide the anger and betrayal; questions and confusion; delights and fun trickery between siblings; nor the personal responsibility you addressed in hind-sight looking back into your role as a sister.

You are in a certain sense (to me...) reminiscent of the style of Mark Twain-- IN PART.
I truly believe that your 'detailed-story-telling' will be something that marks you, Cecile as Spectacular and Unique! Too often these days (as you no doubt know...) authors 'try' too hard to BE impressive-- and their efforts come across as calculated, impersonal, and high-minded. But OH... that is NOT YOU, baby girl! :) Your style and story-tellling IS impressive because ITS IN YOU.

You weave in and out between, lets say, a simple sentence that is SO impactful-- and then launch right into SUCH an INCREDIBLE arrangement of words, style, and alliteration?--- I would go back and re-read that same sentence or set of sentences over and over... simply BECAUSE it was soooo beautifully written! Really an ASTOUNDING WRITER... :)
Strong narrative, humor, provocative descriptions--- Many MANY times, I found myself 'talking back to you!' I would ask you questions out loud, or comment on a scenario you told us of---Sometimes frustrating. Sometimes fantastic. lol
And it was cool ... reading into your life for the FIRST time... (while YOU having the intimate knowledge of living it not JUST once literally, but over and over again in your mind, heart and emotions) for me to come to certain conclusions early ON.... that you revealed LATER in your book that you had finally come to or just revealed. You allow us in, or draw us IN to your story with you.

You caused your audience to "want" to live along-side you to see what was next.... or WHY 'what came next' ....DID! You see?
Alot to chew on. Some answers you found... to the questions that came. And other agonies, seeming yet to have no remedy for you.
But at the end... you related a personal resolve or 'mantra,' we could say, going forward. Gathering together all that you have looked at, of what has occurred... you created a type of 'plan' that is working for you and giving peace.
In conclusion.... I want to say that I am well acquainted with mental illness, suicide and erratic or disturbing behaviors among family members or spouses. And on purpose... I have left out my personal beliefs, conclusions, actions and experiences in this email today.
I simply want you to know that I have lived and walked through those things as well. And if you ever wanted to connect again simply to chat on that--- I would be open to that.
But.. for the purposes of this communication today, Cecile?--- I pray that this is a blessing and encouragement to you concerning your book, your unique style and story-telling, and your massive talent!!! :)

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Lilla Petra (Source Goodreads)
8/18/2023 08:02:01 am

It’s such a beautifully written book, it was everything: sad, funny, tragic, honest, lyrical, magical, it really touched my heart and my mind.
The only ‘negative’ thing I can write about this book is that sometimes the jumps (in time/chapters) were confusing.
All in all, it was an incredible and heartbreaking experience, I’m grateful for the ARC I received. Thank you!

5 of 5 stars

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Marie Hansen Nelson (Source Goodreads)
8/18/2023 08:02:51 am

Loved this book. Well written! Couldn’t put it down. The reality of mental illness!! Highly recommend a good read!

5 of 5 stars

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TD (Source Amazon
8/18/2023 08:07:27 am

Cecile’s recount of life in a small village in Northern Saskatchewan paints a very vivid picture and I couldn’t put it down. Quite riveting to say the least.

5 of 5 stars

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Jun Burl
8/21/2023 01:03:02 pm

This book tugged at my heartstrings as I came to know the family, and felt the loss through my bones. I have lived this tragedy in my own life, dealing with child abuse by an alcoholic parent who eventually took her own life. Depression is widespread and so little is truly known about it. Thank you Cecile, for sharing your story.

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Carly (Amazon Customer)
8/24/2023 06:25:23 am

Beautiful Read.

I genuinely loved this book. It is raw and real, and as someone who lost a sibling as well her viewpoint struck more than one chord with me. Cecile writes beautifully about love, tragedy and survival.

5 of 5 stars

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Catherine Hawes - Reeds Discovery link
9/5/2023 08:21:39 am

Must read 🏆
An essential memoir about the healing power of community and triumph over tragedy

Cecile Beaulieu‘s Brother Broken is a poignant memoir delving into her personal struggles and the devastating impact of suicide. Through her eloquent and persuasive prose, she explores the effects of mental illness and substance abuse, illuminating the remarkable resilience of the human spirit. This book offers profound insights into the complexities of our choices.

Cecile's childhood in Saskatchewan greatly influenced her identity and perspective. Her family faced challenges such as mental illness, addiction, and suicide. People perceived as strong and resilient often conceal their inner turmoil, a dynamic prevalent in her upbringing.

Cecile's family experienced several unfortunate events, causing her to distance herself emotionally and become isolated. Her brother John's excessive drinking at parties with their younger brother, Mitch, changed their relationship with John. After he suffered a work-related accident, he became despondent and eventually took his own life.

Sadly, two more of her brothers also suffered tragic ends. Denis suffered a head injury wrestling with other boys, causing him to become withdrawn. Despite connecting with people who could relate to his difficulties and receiving support, Denis committed suicide. Mitch, although a loving father, his bipolar disorder, coupled with diabetes, and an extravagant lifestyle led to his demise.

Suicide and survivors' guilt evoke emotions such as shame, stigma, and fear. In Cecile's case, she blamed herself for not preventing the loss of her loved ones. The author and her siblings internalized their trauma, leading to a worsening situation.

Notwithstanding the delicate subject matter, the writer’s captivating style engenders a deep connection with the audience. By using personal anecdotes and vivid descriptions, she delves into topics such as mental health, substance abuse, and suicide, rendering the book informative and relatable.

The book portrays the monumental impacts of tragedy on individuals, families, and communities emphasizing the significance of communal support. People battling inner conflicts are illustrated in a compassionate manner, exploring the emotional, motivational, and cognitive components of their circumstances. This memoir is an exceptional work addressing intricate issues with tenacity and humanity.

Cecile's raw emotion produces an emotive experience. Her writing elicits heartbreak and empathy, prompting readers to analyze their own perspectives. The author's sensitivity is evident, making this book ideal for those seeking hope, guidance amidst adversity, or a deeper appreciation for the resilience of the human spirit. The journey towards restoration resembles ascending a mountain, with each step leading to improved well-being, demonstrating healing is achievable.

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Mona Kitchener
9/22/2023 06:48:44 am

I just looked at your new website … it is excellent! I consider myself very lucky to be one of the first to read Brother Broken.

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Cecile Beaulieu
9/22/2023 06:50:27 am

I think you were the first, Mona... 📙 💕 😉

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Amazon Customer
10/3/2023 02:54:31 am

Loved it.
5 of 5 stars
I absolutely loved this book. The way she writes and tells her stories, Cecile is a truly talented writer and I'm so glad she is able to share her story with us , as I can't imagine how painful of a process it was for her to go through the writing of this book.

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Sandy Kapler (Amazon Customer)
10/20/2023 08:00:35 am

Great Book.
Half way through and what a fabulous read! Couldn’t image losing three brothers as it was heartbreaking losing one! This book is well worth the purchase!
5 of 5 stars

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